We all have faced the two sibling emotions- Shame and /or Guilt.
They always left me mulling over which is better of the two demons, since these are unavoidable, and I got my reply today.
“Shame makes YOU feel as a culprit and brings all kind of negativity in you and you start avoiding certain things, in the process lose confidence, worst is you don’t try to improve upon it but just sulk; whereas Guilt is directed towards YOUR attempt, something that you can improve for the next time and best is , it doesn’t bring that fear in you but a push in you to do it better the next time.”
I would love to leave this open for you all to decide which one to feel ,if at all the situation puts on this crossroad!!
Would you like to think I have failed or my attempt has failed?